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In a way, maybe it was a damned if I do, damned if I don't kinda thing.
added by Slaughtering for Elvria on 03.09.2019 in 16:31Just don't know how long you can live like this, put up with it all in your life. Maybe a trial separation is in order!
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added by Delahay for Elvria on 04.09.2019 in 04:51braces are an instant turn-on
added by Asphyxy for Elvria on 08.09.2019 in 00:45The fact he is looking about for other females is not in the script, she thus withdraws and shuts him down, which is what has happened here.
added by Walnut for Elvria on 04.09.2019 in 00:44looks beautiful
added by Headlamp for Elvria on 02.09.2019 in 21:38I love emo ;)
added by Mcdonald for Elvria on 06.09.2019 in 16:41Picnic or not. Subway is immediate grounds for terminating the date.
added by Knighting for Elvria on 06.09.2019 in 20:14helped.
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added by Hounder for Elvria on 07.09.2019 in 18:41I could learn a few things from him. Is she a lifer? In any event, my exW's BF has my respect. Myself, I've had contact with (self-professed) singular MW's and serial MW's over the decades and, purely as anecdotes go, found the serial MW's have more challenges to face in gaining their 'sobriety'. I had the personal misfortune of loving a serial MW many years ago and having nearly 3 decades of experience with her, seeing the others come and go. IDK, she seems pretty settled with her current BF. Interestingly, some of the serial MW's also blended alcoholism with infidelity. Maybe the 50's is a time of 'always' ending.
added by Kovac for Elvria on 10.09.2019 in 12:14Well how do you see your life unfolding? Nice to do more if you are both feeling that pace is right for you. It's immature and attention-seeking; she should be worried that you won't see her in a good light or it should be a forewarning that she using jealousy to provoke people. Do you feel like she is being unfair about speaking up about her standards? Do you have a right to be jealous of it? Does it make you question her character? If it makes you jealous and you want exclusivity in general, you have a right to ask for it. It's bad manners and not cool. Are your expectations too high? So here's where your standards come into play. That's a personal choice and some people are 50/50 on it. So that shouldn't throw you into a fear/anxiety pattern. My answer would be probably not. Ok, time for an assessment: what do you think about the talking about other guys in front of you? Is it reasonable? She is letting you know that her pace (for whatever reason: dating other guys, other priorities and full life) is slower. If someone(anyone) IS losing interest, do you find that to be a dealbreaker? Lastly, when someone is asking you to give them space and needs the pace to be different, it is realistic to reassess the relationship on the whole? Would you like to communicate with her or is it so egregious that you don't want to continue with her? So back to your original question about her being upfront and saying she lost interest, is because she hasn't decided yet. However, to bring it up to you and kinda taunt you with it is unreasonable and reflects poorly on her character. My opinion on the other guys situation is that at 2 months in without an exclusivity arrangement, she is fine to be talking to and dating other guys. I think she may decline at this point because of wanting a bit more space. But she is giving you a warning or some guidance on what she needs. My opinion is that 2 months in 1-2 times a week is reasonable. Do you think it's reasonable to want that at this stage or can you agree that maybe it's soon for that but in future as things progress it is what you expect and want? Those are just my opinions but flesh out with your answers (at least in your head and/or here if you want). It is very possible her interest is fading. What if someone want reduced contact of the level she is suggesting, say once a week rather than 3-4 days with extended periods? The other person who speaks up should know that if they assess and set limits, you are going to do the same. Does she mean independence as in once night a week is what she means even if you are in a solid relationship and many more months into it? I think if you or something you did is part of the likely cause but otherwise you like the person, I would, in this example, say no it's not a dealbreaker. Do you find it disrespectful?
