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I'm not talking about earth-shattering fireworks, though some people want that and that's their own business. I'm talking about some kind of a connection that makes you WANT to be with a person!! Otherwise, why not spend your time with your friends or reading a great book? see the review

Why are you talking about abusers anyway? see the review

You just keep recycling the same, unproven adages. Most people are seeking meaningful relationships. But not just with anyone, only with people they find appealing and attractive to begin with. The only people the culture is "working against" are people who aren't on par with everyone else, meaning the people no one wants to date. If you happen to fall into that category, that's not everyone else's fault, that's largely your own fault. see the review

Women are not getting the "best" guys in this dating market. Many of them are getting no guys. Many of them are in a holding pattern waiting for something that is completely unrealistic -- the mythical instant spark. I was on a dating site last year and met a very attractive girl. We went on one date which was one and done. I kid you not, six weeks later she was still logged in active on that dating site. She was an example of what online dating and our dysfunctional dating culture is turning many women into: the serial dater. The type of woman who goes from man-to-man week after week never settling on any one of them because of her unrealistic expectations regarding an instant spark. she is not finding a relationship. She's wasting her time and that of a lot of guys with these 10 second tryouts that go nowhere beyond superficial first impressions. see the review

I feel no anger whatsoever. What I do feel is sadness and worry over the perverse and unnecessary direction that our culture is heading in when it comes to dating. It has gotten so difficult for people to find lasting relationships now that our birth rate is beginning to resemble parts of war-torn Europe. That's something we need to be worried about. see the review

It's very, very unreasonable if you don't like the person at all and you have 10 other people you'd rather go out with and only so much time. Let me guess, you go out with everyone twice even if you hate them the first time? see the review

A perfect example of what I was saying earlier. The dehumanizing effect that our algorithm dating style is having on human relationships. It's called GIGS. What incentive do people have to actually get to know one another when they have 50 or 100 more people in their inbox. People do not have the humility or the attention spans to actually invest their full attention and getting to know another human being. Yes I said it. A flesh and blood person, not just another number on the long list of potentials. I get the feeling that you treat all the women you date as just an option. You can call me old-fashioned, but that's not the way I treat my dates. see the review

Even so, if someone's expectations are unreasonable, they will be unsuccessful and have to adjust their expectations. If their plan works, then no adjustment is needed and they'll find someone great. It's a risk that people are willing to take because the potential reward is priceless. I don't see how you can justify being so hung up on how other people want to decide things for themselves. If you don't like this style of dating, no one's making you do it. But stop trying to impose your will on everyone else -- they think it works just fine. see the review

I have been in relationships and seen other couples where one person was not initially head over heels, but they allowed things to build slowly into attraction and long term relationships. I fail to understand why that concept is so offensive to you. Why the notion of investing time to get to know someone as a human being and not "an option" is so perverse. see the review

As I said earlier people are free to make their own mistakes. I'm just letting folks know that there is a better way to date than what has become the norm in our disposable culture. Someone reading this might get married and have a baby because they decided to give a guy a second date instead of nexting him after the first. see the review