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Just not keep them everywhere to the extent that I can't go anywhere in our house for fear I'm going to run into her image. I never asked him to get rid of the pictures - although yes, I wish he would. My partner was SO not over his ex when we started dating and I tried to keep my mouth shut for fear I was being unreasonably 'jealous' for wayyy too long. Too often all of this is blamed on the partner who feels jealous while the guy gets a free pass to do whatever he wants shy of making out with or sleeping with another girl. I also got the 'controlling' bit when I asked for compromises - i.e., that he not leave photos of his ex in easy-to-access places when he knew I used the computer (not that I was snooping, but it sure was pleasant when I'd save pictures and her pictures would pop up!) I thought it was blatantly disrespectful to me to leave it out like that, along with all of the hordes of other things he did. But I wouldn't say it to him, because no matter how I feel, he has the right to keep the pictures. Caused tons and tons of damage and self-esteem problems, and rightfully so. He never looks at them and he'll probably never look at them anyway, so why is he holding on?
added by Pierola for Hafeeza on 15.06.2019 in 16:46I will report back on how it goes. I am going to my first Match.com in person event tonight!
