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Half the time if I am with him he is on his phone or laptop and I don't even exist to him. I don't feel relaxed in this relationship, but I don't know whether it's him or whether I would be like this regardless of who I was with. He isn't as affectionate as he once was, he seems preoccupied most of the time. I feel like he is not over his ex GF and is just with me to replace what he had with her, or because he is lonely and wants a relationship. The other day he was drunk and said 'I don't offer him anything', and that 'other girlfriends in the past have never made him feel like that before'. Mostly the only time he is affectionate is when we have sex. I try my best, but feel sometimes he loses interest in me, so I only make as much effort as he does. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and love him a lot, but sometimes feel he doesn't feel the same. He has said many things like this to me in the past. I just wonder why on earth he would be with someone he feels that way about. One time he said I have 'no character, no conversation'. I also once caught him looking at his ex-GF's instagram profile, and he has recently been liking this girls photos constantly whenever she uploads, since he has been with me, even though that is just a silly little thing it just adds to my paranoia.
added by Propagator for Asell on 27.12.2019 in 17:22okay, sorry bobo
added by Grainer for Asell on 27.12.2019 in 08:37We are not financially stable. However, I do not wish to get married right away. I know he is right about a lot of things in this. We both have jobs (I work two jobs) but since we go to school full-time we both live at home with our parents and rely on them for a lot of things.