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She sees him with you, and wants that for herself. She may not understand that subconsciously it isn't necessarily HIM she wants, so much as it is a happy relationship and her mind is leading her in the direction of your boyfriend. All subconscious stuff aside, knowing the motivation for an affair isn't going to stop it. I expect your friend is not running to your boyfriend so much as she is running away from a bad situation, and I expect she has your boyfriend idealized in her mind.
added by Olden for Lamyaa on 12.11.2019 in 12:43This site seems partial to big hair.
added by Pardons for Lamyaa on 10.11.2019 in 04:24It doesn't sound like he is that into the relationship. Ask him point blank to his face and don't let him escape. This is not "pushing someone away" this is making them face up to their fear/indecision/whatever. If she would have brought it up earlier, it would have saved her time she feels she wasted. You have a right to know. I was him in my last relationship. He is giving you the information you need. After 1.5 years "I didn't know" and she pushed to move in and I realized I wasn't in love with her. "I don't know" means "I'm not thinking of a future for us". Why wait until the end of May.
added by Quaff for Lamyaa on 12.11.2019 in 13:16I clearly am not. I will go seek counseling. I did go for about 3 months when the past relationship ended. I was suffering from ptsd, and all sorts. But I am still convinced this guy might have an abusive streak. She said to me that what I have been through will make me not go through the same thing again, and she said I was fine.
